Main course being jambalaya and crab legs with gluten free hushpuppies, deviled eggs w/ smoked fish, a lemon poached shrimp dip, French bread and baked corn pudding. My wife did the heavy lifting in the kitchen and I made hurricanes/kept the wine flowing

    • hahafuck [they/them]
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      3 years ago

      Just checked it out. The food in OPs pic looks waay tastier. In any case Rockwell didn't show the napkins but I guess it's implied they're on the laps so they could be gold, idk, but besides that the two images actually make a good study of bougieness cause in almost every way that they differ, the Rockwell is more humble (room size, elaborateness of the table setting, window type, spread, silverware (the presumably silver tureen being an exception). A lot of that is due to the age ofc, styles change

      • jabrd [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        Also everything in my picture is for show. My family never eats like this except for holidays when extended family is coming to visit. My parents are petty bourgeois putting on airs. This house is massive but so far in the sticks that a studio apartment in my neighborhood in the city costs an equivalent amount of money. The gold napkins are hilarious too when you realize that normally they don’t even use napkins with a meal they just keep a roll of paper towels nearby.

        There’s something to be said about a 70 year gap between my pic and the Rockwell painting but I also think there’s a cultural difference in the facade put on by people trying to emulate a class lifestyle they can’t normally afford and going overboard because they weren’t raised in that class culture to have the “manners” of that class. I could write a book on my family’s weird political economy-caused psychological ticks