hahafuck [they/them]

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Cake day: March 15th, 2021

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  • You literally fucking were and you still insisted on goading me after I was obviously fed up. You were trying to use the existence of bisexuals (OF WHICH I AM ONE DUMMY) as a trap accusing me of being biphobic DURING PRIDE MONTH NO LESS in order to weirdly debate me over what is just a stated preference against a very plainly specific type of post. I'm just making a point about my perception and feelings and I explicitly excluded apparant bisexuals in my followup after you said literally the same thing the first time. Don't be rudely pedantic and try and use people's own ass sexuality as a cudgel against them! Who does that! Just be fucking nice and expain yourself and don't just repeat the same snide shit over and over!





  • I am unfortunately reminded bisexuals exist every time I look in a mirror. Sorry but cis bisexual men are just as capable of doing annoying heteronormative masculinity as straight men so their bisexuality is not really relevant to my distaste for their blather. It would make me feel better to have sexuality tags and I do encourage every bisexual to start every post with a reference to their bisexuality if they want to endear themselves to me, which idk that they would, maybe men should just get over themselves also and not think everyone has to love everything they say or else they are being wronged


  • Imagine you are in a room trying to get loose and have a good time. There are about 50 people in this room, all talking loudly and hanging out, and its very noisy and people are in your space, like at a crowded bar. On reddit, even on the old subreddit, the room feels like 40 of the 50 people are young-adult, non-dropout, white American, straight, and men. This is a loud type of person, and occasionally an annoying one. They can be funny and agreeable, but still, that can be a tough room to spend a lot of time in, right? Here, it mostly feels like maybe 20 of the 50 fit that description, a much more comfortable breakdown. But in reality it is still majority that. So hearing men whine about woman problems breaks the illusion that this is a mostly GSM site, makes it feel like reddit again.

    So how to solve this? No solution besides all you become gay and trans, easy enough if you really think about it. But failing that, just gotta accept that sometimes things you say are gonna be annoying to others. That's life. People are gonna hate when you do your thing, at least they aren't gonna be violent to you about it, count your blessings


  • hahafuck [they/them]topoliticsCan we just ban all hornyposting?
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    2 years ago

    Yeah the subreddit used to have bad hornyposting (like with AOC I remember?) so that too, true, but I think I'm saying it does seem way better here, and we have made an effort, but yeah maybe sex stuff could be another CW requirement, fair

    Edit: Although I hate it whenever the pronoun tags give away when someone is talking about being straight and especially a straight man with relationship talk (the reddit demo curse we inhereted) so honestly I would say those posts should have a CW too, but everyone yelled at me for saying that before



  • The old rationale for less horniness was that kids might use the site, so we have no hitting on people or being too explicit, but idk what you are seeing besides that. We have a whole police force, the only good cops, who enforce these rules




  • I'm sorry, please don't take it personally and keep sharing freely, this isn't a criticism of you at all (OP or person reading who disagrees), but I find the Hard Times writing is dogshit bad and unfunny, Babylon Bee in every way except I agree with the premises. The Onion has headlines the editors determine won't carry a full story so they just do a paragraph, every HT that has legs at all - few of them do - should be that at most. I wouldn't have said anything but this is the second time I saw HT on the site today


  • "Happily" lol. But also as I understand it he speaks a few languages and has a non-American partner and lived abroad for many decades, not that you aren't 100% also capable of it, but just that you have to start living that sorta life as soon as you can if you want to be able to live it, it will never just flip as a switch at some indeterminate time in your vague future. And all much easier when you are young as his example shows