Source: https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/meaning-3
smbc is not particularly good, but sometimes hits the spot.
I also found a tumblr blog about all the times JRR Tolkien used queer and gay in the old timey way: https://myqueeresttolkien.tumblr.com/
I tried to read the "Open Borders" book he illustrated but the author kept calling colonizers "natives" :meow-tableflip:
he also really wants to brag about his wife leaving the soviet union.