I don't think I really need to explain much, their admins are transphobic. 
https://hexbear.net/post/1587342
Snowe, an admin, complained about a transgender person being offended over being misgendered. Ategon made an apology post but keeps snowe on, no public apologies from snowe to the transgender people affected.
Textbook 
note: conversation about Ategon's use of the word triggered edited out, might be misunderstanding, need clarified
I read it how you read it and English is my first language. But I do agree I rarely see programming.dev users and when I do, its a mixed bag. I don't have a dog in this race though being from lemmygrad.
The app I use doesn't do display names so I'm also in the same situation with not seeing pronouns. But I have the better sense to use someone's username if I was unsure.
yeah i can see it either way due to the context, weird sentence.