PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them] to menby • 3 years ago

Guys Are Paying $10,000 to Become Real Men at Warrior Camps

PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them] to menby • 3 years ago

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“You’re not allowed to be a man anymore, you’re almost a racist if you’re a man these days. It’s crazy.”

In which men, desperately lonely and alienated, pay thousands of dollars to pretend to be Tier One operators. I urge you to read this if you want to stare deep into :amerikkka: brainworms

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LeninWalksTheWorld [any]
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3 years ago
definitely lot of fun to be had playing spot the fed at commie camp lmao

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- If you're not trying to be seen as masculine for your lifestyle content, it's irrelevant to this comm. If you are trying to be seen as masculine, let's have a discussion about why these things are seen as masculine.

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