Last year I was employed at a decent paying job with good benefits, doing work that mattered. Now I'm seven months unemployed, out of benefits and still getting ghosted by employers. Most everything else has remained the same (no friends, uncertainty with my gender and how I want to live my life, stuck living with my mom) except that I started seeing a therapist ~10 months ago who I really like.

It just feels really, really bad. I'm assuming other people have had this experience in their life already (I am both fairly young and a late bloomer in most respects), so I guess I'm asking how you dealt with it and how things got better, assuming they did :aware:

you can also commiserate with me if you like

thanks gamers

  • D61 [any]
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    5 months ago

    As a person who goes through this every year... I have learned to just wait for next year. Things'll be a bit worse than that they were before.

    I don't know if my brain completely broke or I just got too tired to be as stressed out as I used to get but I've gotten surprisingly... calm at the reality of my situation.

    So I think I got to the point of "accept it, feel bad for a bit and then move on."

    And happy/adequate/barely tolerable (whichever is appropriate) b-day fellow hexbearino.