I played gay dodgeball years ago and had a ton of fun with it. Been playing a lot of halo infinite lately and wishing I could do so in a rec league type environment.
A cursory internet search didn't turn up what I'm looking for. Do these exist? Should they?
I think you just find a discord server or something. You might try looking at people who stream the game and see if they have a community where you could find pickup games?
woof that sounds like a minefield of capital-G Gamers tho. part of what I'm trying to avoid in finding a gay league