I know kids can learn things way faster so I've always been confused if it's really practical or not. i don't want to ask cringelibs because ifeel like i'm going to get generic "you can do it if you try real real hard!" responses

  • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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    3 years ago

    I try but I legit have fucked up bad before so its just tough to trust myself when in the past doing that was bad, y'know?

    • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      I'm not sure if it's helpful to you, but I learned to laugh at my own failures and it made failing a lot less miserable.

      When I was learning Japanese I would pick out my own worst mistakes and show my friends and tutors and have a good laugh.

      I know it's not for everyone, and you should find your own way to make failure better, but reframing failure as a hilarious fuck up helped me cope.

      • AOCapitulator [they/them, she/her]
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        3 years ago

        I absolutely do laugh at my failures, that's definitely good advice imo. I've just as of yet not found a way to know for sure when I'm failing and when I'm not which is why I find it hard to accept that I'm doing well if I am