I keep putting them on pedestals and it’s making me miserable :ooooooooooooooh:

  • LoudMuffin [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    The reality is nobody is going to find you attractive if you do not work on yourself because hating yourself and feeling like you’re a failure isn’t attractive to anyone. Nobody feels bad for you and nobody will feel bad for you if you hate yourself

    i found this out the hard way and now I'm alone :agony-deep:

    • TankieTanuki [he/him]
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      edit-2
      3 years ago

      But you're doing the thing right now! You already know what the solution is: be kind to yourself.

      :meow-hug: