I was chatting about this sort of subject/behavior on Discord with the boyz a few weeks back. The conclusion we all came to is that the desire to treat people like they're special is good and decent. However, the desire to do that very quickly without forming any actual sense of familiarity, courtship, or communication is the stringer. Being a good and nice person to everyone you meet is great, but elevating others without any real to do so and at the same time reducing yourself is kinda the problem. It's good to treat other well, but you must treat you well too. That was the big conclusion we came to.
I was chatting about this sort of subject/behavior on Discord with the boyz a few weeks back. The conclusion we all came to is that the desire to treat people like they're special is good and decent. However, the desire to do that very quickly without forming any actual sense of familiarity, courtship, or communication is the stringer. Being a good and nice person to everyone you meet is great, but elevating others without any real to do so and at the same time reducing yourself is kinda the problem. It's good to treat other well, but you must treat you well too. That was the big conclusion we came to.