I'm going to fucking break. I can't keep up functioning like a normal person. It's an endless cycle of overextending myself, crashing and painfully getting back up. Everything I do towards making myself and my life better takes away so much energy that I stall and crash. For every step forward, it seems like I take two backwards. And the worst thing is that people don't understand. It's a cycle of extreme stress that I don't want to keep enduring, it keeps fucking coming, I'm like constantly behind. It never stops.

Sorry for the rant, I needed to vent somewhere into the void.

  • EnsignRedshirt [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    The cycle of “overextend, crash, fall behind, overextend to catch up, repeat” is so familiar. It’s gotten easier to manage as I’ve gotten older, but it‘s a struggle. Be kind to yourself, and do what you can to avoid the need to conform to other people’s expectations. Easier said than done, but I find it helpful to remind myself that I don’t need to put on a show for everyone on top of everything else.