Men especially do this because the patriarchy convinces men to destroy and/or repress all of their emotions except for rage!
“Rationality” without emotions and a sense of morality turns you into a dead-eyed monster! Learn to love yourself and speak about your feelings! Emotional communication heals!
The greatest revolutionaries have been those with compassion and love for the working class. Over intellectualizing everything is a poor coping response and very obvious to everyone around you!
You cannot validate your masculinity by destroying yourself, hurting others, and perpetuating systems of oppression. That is a lie told to you by another sucker who also bought into the scam!
Instead, try destroying capitalism, hurting fascists, and perpetuating socialism.
We shall call it regenerative masculinity