Men are allowed to lust after women and woo them and make them laugh. But seeing a man truly admire and respect a woman makes a lot of people uncomfortable. They read it as weakness or something. Men are only supposed to respect and admire other men. It’s really fucked up and also I think the reason that so many cishet men won’t let themselves actually be vulnerable with their partners.
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Men are allowed to lust after women and woo them and make them laugh. But seeing a man truly admire and respect a woman makes a lot of people uncomfortable. They read it as weakness or something. Men are only supposed to respect and admire other men. It’s really fucked up and also I think the reason that so many cishet men won’t let themselves actually be vulnerable with their partners.