I'm not going to link it, because its worthless, but I take back anything nice Ive ever said about these unsufferable, useless dweebs. Join the PSL, holy shit, the DSA national org is complete dogshit.

    • Commander_Data [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      We call them missing steps/stairs in the BDSM community. It happens in smaller groups/organizations without a dedicated organ to "fix stairs" because taking time and energy away from actually dealing with the missing stair detracts away from the mission and it's more efficient to step over them. It's a huge problem.