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  • Dꫀꪑꪮꪀᥴ᥅ꪖᥴꪗ@lemmygrad.ml
    hexagon
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    9 months ago

    “where are you really from”

    This is my lifelong experience wherever I go in Europe (I'm just mixed white European ethnicities, with mixed names and accent, and background - I cannot categorize myself as from one place, and this triggers me a lot, because it's obviously a way for people to both stereotype you and categorize as "other", and it's not useful to anyone but xenophobes as a tool of dehumanization. I am very sorry you had to live through that. :( ) I assume your life in Guatemala is better and I'm happy you had the option.

    • JuryNullification [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      background - I cannot categorize myself as from one place

      In the US you could just lie to the randos that ask you and no one would know

    • ZWQbpkzl [none/use name]
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      9 months ago

      Seconding JuryNullifications point. Never give this answer in person in the US. Give a different answer each time with more elaborate details. Its an american tradition.

      • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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        9 months ago

        If all else fails, fall back on this sure method; Your family immigrated from Kerry 200 years ago and you're proud of your Irish American heritage! We're all Irish here in America, especially when it annoys the Irish. ; )