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except my bf hes the one good male and will force the rest into submission :meow-hug:

  • Ideology [she/her]
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    2 years ago

    I think most hexmen are fine. But outside? Scary. :scared:

    • wtypstanaccount04 [he/him]
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      2 years ago

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    • kristina [she/her]
      hexagon
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      2 years ago

      I mean yeah 5-10% of guys are probably alright.

      But like I got called a dude's 'baby girl' while he was grabbing his dick at the grocery store the other day. I feel the need to drag my bf everywhere, no matter how inconvenient, because he scares lesser men with how buff he is. I feel like I'm constantly being swarmed by toxic masculinity everywhere I go, the tragedy of being kinda cute I guess :meow-tableflip:

      • wtypstanaccount04 [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        I want to say that it's more than 5-10% but your experiences are not exactly inspiring :deeper-sadness:

        • kristina [she/her]
          hexagon
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          2 years ago

          Thing is I've been on both sides of the coin sorta (pre-transition stuff) and I still have that assessment :joker-troll:

            • kristina [she/her]
              hexagon
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              2 years ago

              Like I can maybe see an argument for like, 5-20% lmao, but then you get into the territory of 'guys who are passive to shitty things happening around them being OK'

              I think I've had random dudes stand up to an intimidating guy once or twice in the probably hundred+ times I've been harassed. Honestly I've been harassed so many times that I can't legitimately put a number on it so honestly just disregard that, no way I can write an accurate starting point

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        My wife has this thing we call the death stare. It can be learned and practiced, and it isn't a sure thing, but it can significantly reduce the duration and frequency of chud creeping.

        That said, bringing some kind of self defense weapon with the death stare is a very good idea.

        • kristina [she/her]
          hexagon
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          2 years ago

          I've tried that but I think I'm just too harmless looking

          • UlyssesT [he/him]
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            2 years ago

            A carefully-presented and held close defensive weapon (pepper spray, stun gun, etc) is all I can suggest then, and I know that doesn't solve or prevent everything. :desolate:

            • kristina [she/her]
              hexagon
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              2 years ago

              Yeah it's some peace of mind but it's not like I can legally spray a guy for being a creep, whereas guys can legally make me feel unsafe whenever