RamsFan [none/use name] to chapotraphouse • 2 years agoYou know what's annoying? When you try to exchange apologies with someone and they refuse and instead just try to justify what they said/did.message-squaremessage-square6 fedilinkarrow-up110file-text
arrow-up110message-squareYou know what's annoying? When you try to exchange apologies with someone and they refuse and instead just try to justify what they said/did.RamsFan [none/use name] to chapotraphouse • 2 years agomessage-square6 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareSlaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]hexbear4·2 years agoI'd prefer and actual conversation of the situation and how we should approach it in the future than a "ok, you're right, sorry" and nothing further. I want the the reasons behind actions and why they thought it was appropriate. But there is a difference between a discussion and blame deflection. link
minus-squareRamsFan [none/use name]hexagonhexbear3·2 years agoThis case was definitely the latter. link
minus-squareSlaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]hexbear3·2 years agoyeah that sucks. People will tell you who they are, if you can't air grievances then the relationship can't really evolve. link
minus-squareRamsFan [none/use name]hexagonhexbear2·2 years agoJust to clarify, this was with coworkers. link
minus-squareSlaanesh [he/him, comrade/them]hexbear3·2 years agoyeah sorry not trying to imply romantic relationship. We have a relationship buddy. Hope it's better than with your hardheaded coworker. link
I'd prefer and actual conversation of the situation and how we should approach it in the future than a "ok, you're right, sorry" and nothing further.
I want the the reasons behind actions and why they thought it was appropriate.
But there is a difference between a discussion and blame deflection.
This case was definitely the latter.
yeah that sucks. People will tell you who they are, if you can't air grievances then the relationship can't really evolve.
Just to clarify, this was with coworkers.
yeah sorry not trying to imply romantic relationship. We have a relationship buddy. Hope it's better than with your hardheaded coworker.
It is, they're just assholes.