Things are alright, but we have moderate differences in goals and life paths that make a more fulfilling relationship unlikely. Being with him is really fun and affirming, but it just feels like something is missing. At the same time, I am afraid if I end things to focus on dating more I'll be lonely and feel selfish.
Looking for advice and perspectives on when to leave or stay.
I appreciate the advice. We have talked about it at length sadly and it doesn't seem like things will change. Now is sort of a holding pattern where things are okay but many of the things that are important to me aren't going to fit his life.