I think there's an unspoken understanding that people need to party every now and then and that social norms are somewhat relaxed in that context. We make concessions for people partying because we also want those concessions made for us. This holds up as long as they're not partying all the time making the same people make concessions for them.
There definitely is that understanding, I just think it should be more or less extended to single people as well, if you dont have any interest in big parties then there should still be concessions made for you, not just for "when its your time to have a party."
I think there's an unspoken understanding that people need to party every now and then and that social norms are somewhat relaxed in that context. We make concessions for people partying because we also want those concessions made for us. This holds up as long as they're not partying all the time making the same people make concessions for them.
There definitely is that understanding, I just think it should be more or less extended to single people as well, if you dont have any interest in big parties then there should still be concessions made for you, not just for "when its your time to have a party."
I guess you just have to be occasionally loud in a way that people understand is you using your license to party.