WHERE TO GET THE BOOK: http://libgen.is/book/index.php?md5=F6B31A8DAFD6BD39A5986833E66293E6
PRIOR THREADS:
So, it's been a minute. Apologies. Life has been overwhelming me lately. School, work, more failed attempts at dating, etc. Please be patient, I have autism (probably)
I was also reading Devon Price's new book, Unlearning Shame. Definitely recommend. He dismantles shame as a social construct of behavioral reinforcement and the undergirding of the lie that is rugged individualism, and prescribes the cure of building community and understanding social interconnectedness on a deep level. Made me re-examine just how much shame is woven into the fabric of the way I conduct myself and hoo boy it's a lot. I blame my Catholic upbringing.
Anyway, I figured before I dive back into the next chapter it'd be nice to get caught up and see where everyone is at. Share your thoughts here, ask questions, get caught up. I want to make a new post next week but first I have to write an informative speech and then an essay about some story or another
Let's cut down on the decision paralysis with some discussion questions:
- What's new with you, neurodiversity-wise, since the last thread?
- Any points of contention, confusion, or questions from prior chapters?
- Post any thoughts specific to the last chapters that you didn't get to share before.
Tag post to follow.
Oo I started and stopped reading this recently, maybe this will get me back on track.
This book got me to look into getting assessed. I also found that the book helped me give myself permission to be "weird" sometimes and to better look out for myself in certain social situations. Definitely also feels like ASD could explain my p confusing relationship to gender & sexual identity.
I'd definitely recommend this to other folks that are wondering if they are on the spectrum.
I hate that term. "ASD." No offense or anything!
None taken! Why is that?
It's not a disorder.
Seems like a good reason to dislike the name lol, hadn't really thought about it much tbh.
Yes, it's just a different way of thinking.
And different isn't bad.