Is there anything wrong with being more attractive to men? :thinking-about-it:

I'm honestly not sure if there is a non-shitty self help book written by a woman about it. To me, when I was dating, I obviously cared about whether or not I was attracted to whoever I was looking to's face, but honestly everywhere else wasn't a big deal for me, I feel like because I'm bi I have a pretty wide range of body types that I like. I do like strong men with decent cardio, mostly for the sex cause that means I have to do way less work because when you're with an out of shape dude you are essentially gonna be doing squats for an hour which can be brutal and not exactly the most enjoyable thing at times and makes some types of sex very hard. Good arm muscles are great for prone stuff which a lot of people are fans of. A lot of stuff comes down to personal preference, but generally staying well groomed (re: regular hair cuts or taking care of your long hair and making it beautiful) and clean, and having a very very basic sense of style (re: graphic tees don't look the best) are good. Don't have to dress up all the time but sometimes thats a plus. Brush your teeth. Have hobbies that are of interest to your date (so, you like video games? try to find a girl that likes those). A lot of women seem kinda shallow about the pics guys put up, but I feel like the smarter women realize that men suck at taking photos of themselves (or at least my bf did, he looks WAY better in person). So maybe take into consideration bad luck is based on bad pictures.

For me, when I was on apps and looking for a date, I was miserable. I had guys constantly spamming me for sex, sending me insults or whatever, saying 'hey' and leaving it at that. Very few even looked at anything I had to say on my profile, and I gave a lot of lead ins. Books, socialism, video games, what I do for fun, a ton of things. Generally hated it when guys didn't want to talk about mutual interests because it felt like it was just a pump and dump situation. At the time, I made it very clear I wasn't in it for just the sex yet a lot of guys seemed to ignore this. Remember that sometimes women ghost you not because they don't like you, but because of fatigue from having hundreds of dudes trying to spam 'fuck me' at them.

If you have any specific questions you can hit me up, again, don't really know of any specific reading material. All of the stuff above are things that would immediately strike me from point a to z when dating people. Especially the teeth, for the love of god, brush your teeth.