I got told today I shouldn't raise kids because I'd purposefully raise them in a vegan household, without animal products of any sort. I was told this would be dangerous and unfair to the kids.

It was a weirdly direct thing for this person to say to me (one of my coworkers). It's stuck in my head. I was told I should let my potential children choose what sort of morals they have, even though this person is raising their kids Catholic. Their advice to me was to allow my potential kids to choose every night between a meat-based meal and a vegan meal (???). And several other coworkers agreed. Where do they come up with this? No carnist raises their kids like this.

So is anyone raising vegan kids or does anyone know about what it's like? Or was anyone here raised in a vegan household?

  • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@reddthat.com
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    7 months ago

    I’d be really worried about the kid’s classmates and peers though. I’d hate a kid to get bullied over coming from a vegan household, or get peer pressured into getting some nuggets at the lunch counter. That would suck and I don’t know how to mitigate that.

    Not really sure how much you can? I know my mom worried about us having gay parents and being bullied for that because Texas. She tried to encourage us to keep quiet, but we didn't think anything of it, so obviously we didn't hide it. AFAIK, none of us were ever bullied for it. At worst, one of my brother's friends parents just complained to our mom that we got special treatment because she couldn't accept her kids were not academically inclined. Oh, I guess my mom did get me to start taking karate when I was like 4yo. Not that I ever got into any fights at school, but I assume she wanted me to be able to defend myself if I needed to.