• NewLeaf [he/him]
      hexbear
      52
      2 months ago

      Not in my experience. I've never dated anyone that wants to take care of me like I'm a helpless child.

      • RNAi [he/him]
        hexagon
        hexbear
        13
        2 months ago

        Liking to take care of partners that have "weakness moments" is problematic?

        • NewLeaf [he/him]
          hexbear
          23
          edit-2
          2 months ago

          No, but wishing they were your child is creepy.

          Which part of this meme references "weakness moments"?

          Maybe it's just me, but I don't want to even imagine the person that I have adult relations with as my child.

        • EmoThugInMyPhase [he/him]
          hexbear
          8
          2 months ago

          Nothing about this is “problematic.” It’s just funny and weird, especially when you word it like the caption instead of just saying you enjoying taking care of your partner

    • ZWQbpkzl [none/use name]
      hexbear
      30
      2 months ago

      This isnt all that weird if she wants to have kids with him. Wanting to be his mom is weird. Usually he wants his mom and she wants her dad. Or someone defined in relation to their parents.

    • Nakoichi [he/him]M
      hexbear
      46
      2 months ago

      I mean, if your mom is the one bathing you as a child she damn well better teach you to wash your dick.

        • RNAi [he/him]
          hexagon
          hexbear
          20
          2 months ago

          So he had an unwashed crusty dick until meeting his wife? I hope he's circumsized

          • LaughingLion [any, any]
            hexbear
            20
            edit-2
            2 months ago

            there was a trend on tiktok over a year ago where one woman realized her husband didnt wash his ass crack (just let the water go down is back into it and that's it) and like all these other women chiming in after asking or noticing when they took showers with their husbands that they also didnt wash their asses

            for the record i wash my ass with dr bronners mint soap that fucking hole be whistlin'

            • ChaosMaterialist [he/him]
              hexbear
              13
              2 months ago

              I have seen the demons that come out of there. How do my brothers in christ not ritually cleanse that holy place?

              • LaughingLion [any, any]
                hexbear
                9
                2 months ago

                its like watching combat footage

                if it bears no witness then who will convey the horrors of man's folly?

                • @GinAndJuche
                  hexbear
                  3
                  2 months ago

                  Sheogorath has heard your prayer and granted all toilets sapience.

            • @DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
              hexbear
              6
              2 months ago

              I may fall into the white guy trap of not washing my legs, but how does one become an actual adult man and not know to wash the stankiest part of the body?

  • Comp4 [she/her]
    hexbear
    34
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    Yet most hexbears have a mom ...curious smuglord

  • spacecadet [he/him]
    cake
    hexbear
    34
    2 months ago

    The only affection people experience for a while is through familial relations so I feel like young people (as in the pic) just use these terms as short hand while learning about things. I think explicit incest fetish is a leap of an assumption.

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
      hexbear
      6
      2 months ago

      fetishes aren't in a separate sphere from socially acceptable "healthy" relationships and desires, but rather exaggerated manifestations of them

  • ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]
    hexbear
    30
    2 months ago

    Ma'am I know your bf is probably (statistically, even) a manchild who'd throw a fit if asked to do chores, and I'm glad you're happy but I dunno if you should be supporting what could be malicious incompetence ✨

    Most twitter ass comment I've made

  • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
    hexbear
    30
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    Was Sigmund Freud right about everything? In this essay I will...

    Oh shit when I first wrote this comment I didn't see the bottom half of the meme lol.

    • RNAi [he/him]
      hexagon
      hexbear
      23
      2 months ago

      Many of his theories on human psychology are wrong but fully apply to fredo psychology

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
      hexbear
      7
      2 months ago

      he was right about a lot of things, and the things he was wrong about still led to interesting insights that were right. people just hate him because the subject matter is frequently uncomfortable (and also the man himself was, like nearly every theorist of the 19th century, a complete freak)

      • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
        hexbear
        3
        edit-2
        2 months ago

        Honestly I'm so jokerifed and deep in ironic nihilism at this point that I think unresolved Oedipus complexes could probably explain the majority of weird behaviour in society.

  • @DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
    hexbear
    11
    2 months ago

    I'm so glad I'm past that age where being a pathetic manchild is in any way acceptable. It makes dating so much easier when I pretty much always pass the first date sniff test.

    • RNAi [he/him]
      hexagon
      hexbear
      10
      2 months ago

      Dating in your thirties is mad easy, just not be insane

      • @DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
        hexbear
        6
        2 months ago

        Yeah, it's so much more chill than my 20s. People care way less about superficial things like taste in music and way more about mutual compatibility.