Are you AFAB? Do you have a personality or hobby outside of "GIRL"? Do you identify as Non-binary but are too poor to pass as anything other then female? Then you're just an attention-seeking tumblrette with daddy issues who needs to STFU and get back in the corner! You're just dressing like a boy for attention!
God, I fucking hate that shit. Sexists get the wall and so do transphobes.
Shit like that is why I'm afraid to come out as non-binary IRL. People will just think I'm some privileged white woman looking for attention.
I am so fucking tired.
Yup.
The best versions of the meme target the act of throwing 'other girls' under the bus, but instead it's usually just shaming AFAB folks for self-actualization
/r/gatekeepingyuri is good
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younger me, largely ignorant of gender identity: hey why does looking at these girls in a relationship make me feel good inside? ah well that's a question for another time