This person was doing the bit where they were misgendering a hypothetical bigot to prove a point and I told them that "misgendering even hypothetical people is never okay because it suggests that being gendered properly is conditional" and they got defensive and I pulled the "youre cis, shut up and listen" card when they started calling me aggressive (I was coddling them up until that point)

I would like the perspective of other non-cis leftists on this