• PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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    1 year ago

    Yeah, seriously. Some commenters in this thread would probably be aghast to hear that the first time I had sex was with a guy in his mid-twenties when I was 18.

    Even at the time I thought it was a little weird on his part, but hey. He was cute and nice to me, and I was very horny. We had a good time. I broke up with him a year later. No harm done.

    • autismdragon [he/him, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      Yeah. What bothers me here is that it seems like some people in this thread would want to IMPOSE victimhood on you for that. And you clearly dont think of yourself that way.

      • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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        1 year ago

        I definitely don’t! I had lots of crushes on older (as in, 18-25 year old) dudes in my late teens, and I remember being excited to turn 18 because it meant I could finally flirt with them without having to worry about the law getting involved, haha. My horny ass would’ve been devastated if the age of consent got raised on me.

        EDIT: For the record, I am in my mid twenties now. I would not date a teenager, and I would side-eye anyone my age who does. Still, I don’t regret my first sexual encounters, and I don’t think the guy I shared them with was doing anything that should be illegal.