if my parents are sick, I wanna be there helping them. They cared for me when I couldn't take care of myself, it is my duty to care for them when they can't. Yes, medical care and trained professionals should be present for some of this, maybe most of this if I don't have the time or money, but I should be there for at least some of it, and it's definitely where I should be and want to be. and anyone that says "I shouldn't care for my parents, that's society's job" does not care for their family and lacks key social bonding beliefs.