Being in a city with a big queer/alt/goth/weirdo population helps. And poly groups aren't necessarily more sexually active or adventurous than anyone else. Even ENM relationships might involve just having more than one partner, or having a FWB, or picking people up at bars once in a while. Swingers, Kinksters, and some BDSM communities tend to have more sex, or sexual play. There's some overlap between poly and enm and kinksters, but it's not 100%.
Being in a city with a big queer/alt/goth/weirdo population helps.
I live in Protestant Rust Belt Hell. For 90% of the people I know, living is working, & working is living. I have never been able to do anything remotely interesting, or enjoyable with my life.
Being in a city with a big queer/alt/goth/weirdo population helps. And poly groups aren't necessarily more sexually active or adventurous than anyone else. Even ENM relationships might involve just having more than one partner, or having a FWB, or picking people up at bars once in a while. Swingers, Kinksters, and some BDSM communities tend to have more sex, or sexual play. There's some overlap between poly and enm and kinksters, but it's not 100%.
I live in Protestant Rust Belt Hell. For 90% of the people I know, living is working, & working is living. I have never been able to do anything remotely interesting, or enjoyable with my life.
I'm sorry, bro. I hope you can get out some day.
Protestant Work Ethic and its consequences. :capitalist-laugh: :you-are-a-serf: