You wrote a lot of things that don't relate to my comment. You shouldn't assume that because a student is refusing school that a parent "tolerates" that and hasn't desperately tried many different interventions, in my experience the parents in these situations are at their wit's end, having tried everything they can think of.
At the end of all of these interventions a child may still refuse to go to school and at that point a parent is not really able to just make them go.
You wrote a lot of things that don't relate to my comment. You shouldn't assume that because a student is refusing school that a parent "tolerates" that and hasn't desperately tried many different interventions, in my experience the parents in these situations are at their wit's end, having tried everything they can think of.
At the end of all of these interventions a child may still refuse to go to school and at that point a parent is not really able to just make them go.
If you want to go all in, there's CEDU and the Behavioral Modification Boarding Schools.
The kind of place where they literally grab you out of your bed in the middle of the night and drag you into a van.
This is an increasingly common option for parents, particularly wealthy parents, with disobedient kids.