that's... simply not true. like, c'mon. it takes work to reach out to other people but you're allowed to just be bored

and either way, the comment is terrible advice. it sounds good to people who are both neurotypical and only reading it on a surface level, but this is still the social equivalent of "dodge better". it's not actual advice, it's a judgement.

it could AT LEAST be framed less judgementally. the last thing someone who is obviously going through a rough spot needs is to be called arrogant.