Schoenbrod told the caseworker he has used the put-a-child-in-jail technique before. Approximately nine years earlier, he said he disciplined his 4-year-old son similarly after misbehaving at preschool. Schoenbrod said he had asked the boy whether he had hit a girl and the boy said yes. So Schoenbrod then told the boy he puts people in jail when they hit other people.

"I took him to the jail and he sat there. And I watched him ... and he was crying and everything, and to this day, if you mention, like, that incident, he’s just like, ‘I would never do that again.’ It was effective," Schoenbrod said. "So that’s why I did it with this. He didn’t hit anybody, but I figured the same thing, discipline. And he didn’t want to go back, so ...” Later, on the hourlong body-cam footage, most of which contained scrambled video, Long could be heard calling the investigation "insane," while Schoenbrod responded: “It’s just disgusting that somebody would drag our family through the mud like this.”

    • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
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      1 year ago

      Shit like this just further entrenches the cycle of abuse people go through they end up becoming abusive adults, sometimes cops.

      • Aryuproudomenowdaddy [comrade/them]
        hexagon
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        1 year ago

        Right, like imagine what their other "discipline" ideas involve. "He didn't finish his plate so we water boarded him for 5 minutes. He said he'd never do it again. That's just driving the lesson home the first time."

  • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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    1 year ago

    to this day, if you mention, like, that incident, he’s just like, ‘I would never do that again.’ It was effective,

    wow dude your 13 year old doesn't hit any more? that's crazy. definitely no other parent has ever achieved this result by other means.

    genuinely starting to think the child liberation people have a point, like this guy's a cop, but also this is how a good portion of parents in this country think, and it's just sort of accepted that they have the authority to traumatize their kid however they see fit.

    • Aryuproudomenowdaddy [comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      My oldest nephew used to smack his little brother for perceived slights and a few years later is the most empathetic child I've ever known, came to vegetarianism pretty naturally once he connected the dots where chicken nuggets came from.

  • emizeko [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    (cw: sa) https://www.cbc.ca/radio/asithappens/as-it-happens-friday-edition-1.4936736/man-raped-during-scared-straight-prison-tour-says-he-was-too-ashamed-to-tell-anyone-1.4936744