inb4 b-but you can't be racist against white people ;_; if I just ignore that my actions hurt the minority groups I pretend to care about (black/asian women) I can use chauvinist rhetoric to bludgeon white women into having sex with me!

I live in a progressive leftist city, I've grown to hate leftists even though I grew up an anarchist

it started when I joined a progressive kink space full of left leaning individuals, I went in thinking I would be among people like me who generally wanted good for other people, instead there was bad shit everywhere, weaponization of trauma and really really messy manipulative shit

my partner at the time was approached by an asian guy who asked her to out on date, she declined, after that she was accused of racism by the guy and backed up by the community because her only play partner prior had been white guys, basically we were forced out of the community and labelled racists because she didn't want to be pressured into sex by this guy

all over the place there was weird racist shit basically implying certain relationships were impossible for consent to exist and that a black women/asian women couldn't consent to a relationship with a white man because of power imbalance and colonialism

this is why the left is failing, and why I gave up on it, because it's full of seething racist losers who just hate white people and want to revenge rape white women as "justice", enjoy jerking off to BBC porn racist hapa incel, don't forget to fantasize about killing your mother in her sleep :^)