I'm also bi and have a cat like this. I think he likes girls more in general though, even when I bring a guy friend over he's hissing at him, but he's always immediately warm to girls? He was abused by a man in the past so I think I'm pretty much the only man he likes (when I first got him it took a while for him to like me)

He especially hates when I date men and have them over a lot. He doesn't scratch or bite but he peed in my ex-bf's limited edition nike shoes as well as on his work pants that were on the floor! He's neutered and these are literally the only occasions he's peed outside of his litter box