I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.
I feel like that's one of those things that very few people have a fond memory of. Mine was just awkward.
There's a lot of pressure around it when you're a teen, and that leads to a lot of unenthusiastic yes situations.