I just realised that "like it's your first time" has a positive connotation I guess, but like... motherfucker? Do most people have non-awful first-time experiences of sex? Between garbage sex ed and cisheteronormativity I just can't imagine. I doubt it was even momentous for most people tbh? Idk.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        3 months ago

        The best part is I am not the same gender as my ex, lmao. Genius level take.

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      3 months ago

      I would suggest that your transition to the sex that abused you, seems to be self abuse;

      Are you John Money, or perhaps J Michael Bailey, or maybe even Sigmund Freud? You do not know the first thing ahout me and you make this ridiculous assumption. Quick, did my transition predate or postdate the sexual abuse? When did the sexual abuse start to begin with? Who on earth are you to be psychoanalysing queer people with reductive queerphobic trash takes like this?