I found this video very fascinating and would love to hear all my fellow non-cishets feel about it. Personally I found it really cool and extremely informative, particularly the bit about "heterosexuality" particularly as an identity being fairly new concepts. Really makes ya think.
Which is why you get the paradox of men bemoaning the death of traditional relationships and the social tragedy of men unable to find partners, but then also producing “I hate my wife” and “marriage is a trap” memes. “This makes you happy and complete, but also it’s fundamentally incompatible with you” is a circle that can’t be squared.