After my mom died this lady swore up and down that she would always be there for me, to help me, so I took her up on her word and asked her for help, NUMEROUS times now, and each time she said no and had an excuse.
It got to the point where I was so fed up with her and her two-facedness that I stopped using facebook and unfriended her thinking maybe she'd get the hint, but no she didn't, the last time I saw her in public she acted like nothing had happened and she was like "sooooooo happy" to see me! :)
So I tried one more time today to see if maybe things had changed with her and, what do you know, she said no, again.
I started on the process of permanently deleting my facebook. It takes 30 days so long as I don't log back in. I'm also never speaking to her again whenever I see her.
Manipulative toxic fucker, fuck her.
Also worth mentioning that she hurt me really bad before in the past. Right after mom died I went into rehab, it was kind of a spur of the moment thing and I ended up being admitted with just the clothes off my back. So I needed someone to swing by my home and get some clothes for me. So I called her, thinking maybe this time, since it was kind of urgent, she'd help. NOPE! She didn't even bother to return my call, she just called the rehab facility and left a message with them for me that she couldn't be bothered.
I've given this lady NUMEROUS chances now to be a stand up human and help me out and each time she's given me the finger.