This is an admin post, intended for blahaj lemmy users. Top level posts from members of other instances will be removed.

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After recent events, it feels to me that sentiment has shifted and more people are asking for defederation of hexbear than previously.

I've been doing my best to try and mend bridges and keep us connected, as it's my hope that we can maintain trans solidarity and work with them, despite the friction, however, ultimately, I feel that this is an issue for the blahaj lemmy community to decide, not the admins alone.

So here's what we're going to do.

We're going to leave things as they are for a week. That will give time for things to calm down whilst we see if we can work together. After a week, I'll put up a vote and get a feel for where the community is at in regards to our continued federation with hexbear. That poll will run for a week. If there is a strong will to defederate (a clear majority), then that's what we will do.

  • NaN@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    That post doesn’t bother me at all. Someone talked some shit on their instance in the midst of some drama yesterday, seems like something they should be able to do on their own instance. I do not support defederating over that.

    • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      It's just more about the whole attitude not inspiring much hope for me. I don't really expect them to operate on good faith when they act like that.

      • NaN@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        1 year ago

        They were acting like that in response to a thread where someone asked to defederate with them for petty reasons and their impression that our admin was upset that they’re anti-NATO (a mischaracterization). I’d probably be mad too. I disagree with a knee jerk reaction to a clash of cultures.

        • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          1 year ago

          While, sure, saying we were "whining and crying" and stuff like that is just really off-putting to me.

          It's one thing to be upset and respond to it, it's another to pretty much go straight into insulting. Like, yeah, sure, give them a chance, but I really don't want that kinda stuff around.

          If they keep it to just their instance but otherwise don't change their behaviour, I will probably just end up blocking their stuff, as it just makes me mad, and call it a day. For now though I'm still reading their posts.. even if they do make me mad, to judge for myself.

          • NaN@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            1 year ago

            Most people didn’t go straight to insulting, they’re a pretty big instance and we would definitely know if they did. One of the reasons we have defederated people before is lack of moderator action, but their mods seem to be pretty on the ball. I’m more offended that Gormandt has posted the same picture several times all over the place as some kind of evidence of a mass issue, than some people being rude on an instance with 25,000.