I keep hearing about how you shouldn't laugh over your own jokes but when I watch a video or listen to a podcast, I find it much more authentic and likable when they laugh over their own jokes in a conversation. You know, vibes.

  • OneMeaningManyNames@lemmy.ml
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    2 hours ago

    OK with laughing over your own joke, but if you burst out and are not even able to finish uttering it, then I think this is a bit childish.

  • TheDoctor [they/them]
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    5 hours ago

    I think this is more of a truism within standup comedy that’s leaked out into being general advice. It can be offputting for a standup comedian to laugh at all their own jokes but even then there’s exceptions to the rule.

  • mayo_cider [he/him]
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    3 hours ago

    If even I don't laugh at my own jokes, why would anyone else laugh at them? The worse the joke, the more I laugh

  • happybadger [he/him]
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    5 hours ago

    Laughing is bourgeois. I believe in the communal sensible chuckle.

  • dumbass@leminal.space
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    7 hours ago

    People who say you shouldn't laugh at your own jokes are either sad, sad people or have never told a funny joke or story ever.

    There's jokes and stories I've been saying for 20 years that still make me laugh as I'm saying it.

    Be a man, laugh at your own jokes.

    • bobs_monkey@lemm.ee
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      45 minutes ago

      Laughing sounds like one of them "emotions" that aren't sposed to exist for real manly men, so says the teevee

      • Cleetus
  • the_post_of_tom_joad [any, any]
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    6 hours ago

    I like it a lot when professional actors lose it once in awhile, it really adds a lot. I do end up disliking it when they do it too often, like it's part of their shtick. There was a dude on SNL for awhile who always cracked up and i hated him. It's gotta feel authentic to me.

  • Lussy [any, hy/hym]
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    7 hours ago

    Truly weird how laughing over your own joke has become known as a symptom for sociopathy.

  • ReanuKeeves@lemm.ee
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    7 hours ago

    As long as they're not obnoxiously loud and saying something that's actually funny, I think it's completely normal. People usually say funny things that they find funny so it would be natural for them to laugh a little.