I made a joke about him having matching butt plugs with Nick Fuentes and how gross that is. My cishet ass didn't realize how wildly offensive that is to lgbtq comrades and I feel like a total shit for doing it so I want to apologize to the community and promise I took it to heart and will self crit on doing better.
Love y'all 
Okay but why can't a hetero couple with more than vanilla curiosities have matching buttplugs? Still seems like a miss to pin it on queerness.
Homophobia can and is used to police heterosexual behaviours as well as queer ones. They’re kind of two sides of the same coin
So long as I don't hold that up as like "normal" compared to it being weird on the other hand for gay people I suppose?