I made a joke about him having matching butt plugs with Nick Fuentes and how gross that is. My cishet ass didn't realize how wildly offensive that is to lgbtq comrades and I feel like a total shit for doing it so I want to apologize to the community and promise I took it to heart and will self crit on doing better.

Love y'all penguin-love

  • Hatandwatch [she/her, comrade/them]
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    2 days ago

    Okay but why can't a hetero couple with more than vanilla curiosities have matching buttplugs? Still seems like a miss to pin it on queerness.

    • nohaybanda [he/him]
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      2 days ago

      Homophobia can and is used to police heterosexual behaviours as well as queer ones. They’re kind of two sides of the same coin

  • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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    2 days ago
    I can't help but notice that even the mods are kind of meta in what they remove.

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    They could have said "target of", or "object of", but instead...

  • Yukiko [she/her]
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    2 days ago

    Thank you, comrade. This was greatly appreciated.

    A lot of other comrades that were in that post need to do something similar. So many people calling it gross. Way too many for my liking.

    • SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]
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      2 days ago

      Thanks, I hope others come around too and do some self-crit. Normally I don't beat myself up over comments but I knew I fucked up and pretty badly and I didn't want to leave anyone hanging that I was just going to dip out without making amends for that.

  • EndMilkInCrisps [he/him]
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    2 days ago

    Things that are alien to us make us uncomfortable. Laughing at uncomfortable things is a coping mechanism. Sometimes we forget we are laughing at another human being.

  • Esoteir [he/him]
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    1 day ago

    thanks for this comrade

    in turn i wanna say at least from me apology accepted, and that even i myself as a gay man™ have committed queerphobia and have to catch myself sometimes. i was more abrasive than i should have been in my reply and you're genuinely a great part of the community and it's posters like you that keep me coming back to this site stalin-heart