I made a joke about him having matching butt plugs with Nick Fuentes and how gross that is. My cishet ass didn't realize how wildly offensive that is to lgbtq comrades and I feel like a total shit for doing it so I want to apologize to the community and promise I took it to heart and will self crit on doing better.
Love y'all 
Things that are alien to us make us uncomfortable. Laughing at uncomfortable things is a coping mechanism. Sometimes we forget we are laughing at another human being.
Thank you!