I made a joke about him having matching butt plugs with Nick Fuentes and how gross that is. My cishet ass didn't realize how wildly offensive that is to lgbtq comrades and I feel like a total shit for doing it so I want to apologize to the community and promise I took it to heart and will self crit on doing better.
Love y'all 
thanks for this comrade
in turn i wanna say at least from me apology accepted, and that even i myself as a gay man™ have committed queerphobia and have to catch myself sometimes. i was more abrasive than i should have been in my reply and you're genuinely a great part of the community and it's posters like you that keep me coming back to this site
np and thanks for checking me, I still have blind spots I need to look out for!