Everyone here assuming OP gonna give birth. Watch the guilt when their lover dies in childbirth instead

When you try to outsmart the person who dictates the universal laws that control how the setting's gods operate you're just asking to have that attitude forcibly returned to you. Most likely in suppository form.

You better make a kid or you're gonna have failed to pay your bills.

Generally if you think you've outsmarted the fey, you haven't. Enjoy giving birth.