With my recent post I was trying to ask if there are other people like me who also feel that people seem to focus more and more on skin color and ethnicity in an unhealthy and obsessive way and I thought I'd find some people agreeing with me who also feel uncomfortable and stressed out by this.

But instead the overwhelming response was people trying to justify racism instead of agreeing that it's a bad thing and needs to end. As if they were trying to use every possible argument to bash on me and justify racism.

Why could it be the case that so many people here on Lemmy support racism? In my opinion there is no reason to discriminate someone based on their looks PERIOD!

  • Metostopholes@midwest.social
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    15 hours ago

    I'm pretty sure that 100% of the people here and in the earlier thread agree that people are intrinsically equal, regardless of their skin color. It sounds like you think that because of this, anyone who supports any situation where people are treated differently based on ethnicity, skin color, etc is racist.

    Let me try a metaphor.

    Let's say there was a group of people with all different skin tones. They are all going to be given money, but because the people running the organization giving out the money are racist, they give much more to people with light skin, and much less to people with dark skin. The people running the organization are replaced with people who are not racist, but it takes generations. The people with less money had to spend it all on food and shelter, and their descendants have none of it. The people who got more money spent some on food and shelter and had lots left over, which they put in a bank and got a lot of interest from it. It was given to their children, and their children's children, and now their descendants have even more money.

    It was definitely racist to originally give more money to the lighter skinned people.

    Would it be racist to now give more money to the darker skinned people?

    • Hello_Kitty_enjoyer [none/use name]
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      14 hours ago

      do half of a mayocide
      1.488 seconds after half the honkeys are gone, turn around to face the other honkeyhalf
      "it was in the past, you need to move forward"

      it's gonna be the best bit ever

  • Panda@lemmy.today
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    18 hours ago

    It's my first time seeing comments like on your previous post on Lemmy. I share your views on skin colour/looks and I think every human being is equal. We all look different and unique and we should embrace that uniqueness.

    I totally see where you're coming from and I'm wondering if there's some misunderstanding going on. You didn't even mention America in that post yet others judge you because you're "obviously an outsider". I feel like there might be two conversations going on here that don't completely align here.

    I think perhaps these people are referring to the need to put people in boxes just because many minorities are suppressed and need to be heard. So basically if you're part of a minority and you are being mistreated you naturally feel more comfortable with other people in a similar situation and thus you're automatically putting yourself in that box (I don't mean voluntarily). And in order for that minority to be heard they need to stand up for that minority/group of people.

    I can see why this comes across as racist and I can totally see where you're coming from (like I said, I share the same views about equality and your looks should not matter at all).

    But this leaves me with the question whether these people just didn't understand where you were coming from? They are kind of turning you into the bad guy when in my eyes you definitely aren't.

    • Social_Discussion@lemm.ee
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      17 hours ago

      Great to hear that there is someone sharing my views here!

      Yea maybe there is indeed some misunderstanding going on. I'm not at all against acknowledging that there are minorities being treated unfairly cause that's literally the thing I was doing and complaining about and was saying we need to stop treating people differently based on their ethnicity or looks since that's the cause of these people being treated unfairly.