My last crushpost got a little weird. They usually don’t get much attention, and what little there is I think is usually men. So this thread should be a good opportunity for women and enbies to bring up what you find problematic.
Update:
Thanks everyone for responding. I have read all the replies and am giving them serious consideration. I will stop crushposting, I deleted all the posts, and deleted the meat of this post as well. Weird or not, however obfuscated, it’s still an obsession and a privacy concern.
For me that's mostly because of the men who react to "i'm a lesbian" with "rly tho?"
Yeah this is the impression I got from how this kind of thing usually goes. At least for me I'd rather have someone ask directly and then not be weird about it then circle around trying to Sherlock Holmes my sexuality.