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UPDATE: The transphobe Ada has been defending says they misgender all trans women/NBs on Blahaj who are strangers - Blåhaj Lemmy
lemmy.blahaj.zoneFurther information on the situation with the transphobia: Abigail has
repeatedly misgendered me and defended her choice by saying she chooses to refer
to all people of unknown gender as male. > Hey, Abigail here. I just want people
to know the reason this person got banned is likely because of a deleted comment
not included in that thread. OP called me ~~autistic ~~ mentally unwell for not
liking politics. THAT kind of behavior is not acceptable on lemmy.blahaj.zone,
so I reported the comment and let Ada handle it. Ada tried in good faith to
reason with OP but it was clear they just wanted to fight. So yeah, they got
banned. Ada’s a fantastic lady who’s been great at keeping the trolls at bay. >
Edit: and the bit about me misgendering them is also wrong. Gender didn’t come
into play until after I had left the conversation. English default on the
internet is male for strangers. Source:
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669
[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669] WRT the statement that I accused
them of autism for not liking politics, further info is available here:
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669
[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669]
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815
[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815]
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026
[https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026]
also i pretty much just switched to using “hey y’all” unless i’m specifically greeting a collective of guys/girls/enbies, since “hey guys” still comes off as a bit weird to me. like, i’m not a
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wtfI still say "hey guys" and "bye guys" just out of sheer reflex
Yea I have been working very hard to remove guys from my speech. Currently liking "folks" a lot.
I agree with folks. Northern anglos saying y'all is
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I'm giving every northerner a "y'all" pass. Ur welcome, it's simply superior
Only if you teach them how to use it properly at least
hey! i'm not a "northern anglo" 😤😤😤
Methinks the lady doth protest too much
noooooo... 😭😭😭
i like "friends"
hello friends!
its nice
I use folks with my students and in general. It's a good one.
Comrades is fun with friend groups who are left though.
heheh
now its time to call everyone gamers
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I've slowly been replacing 'guys' with 'comrades' and it's worked quite well
Oh I should try to do that more!