It's looking like my friend can only go through with a long term (at least 6 months) move overseas they've been working on if I take care of their cat.

I haven't offered this and am not particularly fond of this cat. I don't want to integrate another animal into my home.

Here's the kicker: the friend is a roommate so the cat already lives here (in their room).

Not sure what to do. Like I want my friend to get to go, but at what cost? I'm sure they'll resent it if I don't help, and I am ready for them to move out makima-think

But again I really don't like this cat very much, she's really unfriendly with our cat and dog.

I feel like it's unreasonable to not offer to help.

  • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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    9 months ago

    if you don't want to take care of the cat, tell them that you cannot, in no uncertain terms. you never said that you would, and they have no good reason to expect you to. pets are a responsibility, and they deserve to live with humans that have the time and care that they need. there are other people who can take care of it, and your friend needs to reach out to them.