• Audeamus [any]
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      4 years ago

      The poster above already turned out to have been misquoting the words. But what I mean is you should hold a grudge against someone for the specific words of a joke when you aren't even sure if that's their opinion.

      You're right in that in general, "it was just a joke" IS a bad excuse if you said something awful. But when the comedy podcaster denounces some specific organizing strategy in over-the-top terms, anathematizing them is an inadequate reaction. Like, being offended at a joke is valid, but taking issue with a highly specific political stance when it was probably exaggerated as a joke is silly.