I’ve never actually heard or seen someone honor such a request online or IRL, and it would sound ridiculously stilted if they did. Where is Rumpelstiltskin's coat? Rumpelstiltskin must have left it at the bar. Will someone please text Rumpelstiltskin and let Rumpelstiltskin know?
No, it’s the default when you sign up and now you have to go back into your profile settings to change it.
IMO pronoun selection should have been included in the sign up page (and if I remember correctly, this was the case at some point before the federation?).